It has been more work than expected, but they are here. 16 Ukrainians left on Dec 20 they had a 2 day adventure...some 3 days. It took hours of phone calls and paperwork to get them here. Yes, much more than expected. They had ice in Ukraine. Therefor they started with a delay. Then in NY weather trouble. One child went with the wrong group. The weather helped us there and he was able to get with the right group. We talked with the airlines for hours. They sat for hours there on the plane. Finally after deicing they arrived in Ohio after 2a.m. They went to a friends house and got some rest. They caught a plane the next morning, nearly did not make their connection by 3 minutes time difference in arrival. Pleading and explaining in Atl and B'ham, they did make the flight. Finally in Birmingham. God is good. Some were on their way to TX today.
You do know this is another thing I told God I did not want to do. I did not want to help others get children here. What a blessing I would have missed. God's timing was so amazing in all the steps. We are truly to die to self and serve. What awesome blessings it brings!
We bought 2 twin mattresses for our 3. They are all smiles and hugs. We are thrilled and blessed to have them here. This was something our family discussed and agreed to give up things to get them here. We were all more excited about them coming than Christmas.
This is our second night with them. They are exhausted and sleeping. Cold weather kept us in for the most part, although the boys did ride bikes a little. Yes, it was 19 degrees. They were excited!
Many did not think they would make it here. We are so blessed and thrilled that God did get them here. We are happy just to sit with them. To see them makes me want to cry in joy. They are our children. Not formally but in our hearts.
We did not do Christmas lights last year. We live where nobody sees them. But this year we did it for them. We pulled out all the trees and decorated most for them to see.
Today we wrapped presents, made ornaments, decorated a gingerbread house (new tradition), watched Christmas cartoons and played. For a first day that was alot. They were ready to do stuff and so we did.
To bed early. Well not for me. This is why I don't blog. I choose to sleep.
Thank you to all my praying friends. Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.
Monday, December 22, 2008
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Helping others host
We are in the process of helping around 20 children and 2 adults come from Ukraine for Christmas. We will be hosting the 3 children we hope to adopt. We are helping families that are in the process of adoption to host children in their homes. Please be praying for all of us. This is expensive for each one of the families. The children need prayers for safe travel, God's will in their lives and God's perfect plan.
To make it clear our expense should be only for the 3 children we hope to adopt. To host for Christmas it is the same $2,500 that we payed to host for summer per child. I had said no to helping for months. God kept opening doors. I prayed for them to shut if it was not His will. They did not shut.
Now, months later, I can see why God wanted me to do this. Many of the friend I have made while working with the orphans are hosting children to let the children see their homes and to meet their families and for the children to make the decision about their future. I love that the children are getting to try out families and not families try out children.
Pray for the Dec 5th appointment date. Hosting dates are planned to be Dec 20-Jan 11.
To make it clear our expense should be only for the 3 children we hope to adopt. To host for Christmas it is the same $2,500 that we payed to host for summer per child. I had said no to helping for months. God kept opening doors. I prayed for them to shut if it was not His will. They did not shut.
Now, months later, I can see why God wanted me to do this. Many of the friend I have made while working with the orphans are hosting children to let the children see their homes and to meet their families and for the children to make the decision about their future. I love that the children are getting to try out families and not families try out children.
Pray for the Dec 5th appointment date. Hosting dates are planned to be Dec 20-Jan 11.
From Ukraine 11-08
Do I say too often.... God is awesome! We are now back from Ukraine. God's timing and plans were amazing. We planned to visit all 8 of the children we hosted. We were only able to visit 7. One was in a different city. We did not know before we arrived and had no time to find him. One, the youngest, Leeza was in the hospital. Nothing wrong with her. Just keeping up the quota of used beds there. We encountered that with others we had met before and were blessed to be able to see the while we were in Ukraine.
We joined the Reach Orphans with Hope group for the first few days. They went to Poltava. We were able to see many of the children that had been hosted on summer programs and many I had met the year before visiting there. The kids were glad to see us and we were glad to see them. Lots of hugs! We were able to go with some of them to the park. We took bubbles and balloons. Great fun.
We took the orphanage 75 blankets. The director was pleased.
Natasha planned to take me to see the city on Saturday. Rachel said she just wanted to spend time with the children. I told her it was a privilege. We went and saw churches and an author's home. All this in 1 hour. Her husband drove us. (Later God multiplied the time we lost with the children.)
On a personal note on the night we arrived.... Our boy was asked by a friend if I was his mom and he said yes. I clearly understood this in Russian. I don't understand much. Occasionally I can understand sentences. We had not specifically told them of our plans. I was glad to know he already knew. He and his older sister would come up and hug me every few minutes throughout our time together. It is hard not to have them here with us. They are, in our hearts our children. We love them.
We had a great time with the group. It was an easy time, little responsibility, follow the leader. they were in Poltava 2 and a half days. They left for home on Sunday.
My dear friend Masha joined up Saturday morning. She helped many to talk with their future children. She was such a blessing. She rode the train all night to come, with drunks. (You will understand now why I took the day train later. I learned from her bad experience.)
Sunday we were given permission to take the 3 we planned on adopting to Sumi with us to visit Ira and Rita. Natasha and her son went with us also. Masha came to translate for me. It took about 3 hours. Natasha had the driver pick her up, they picked up the kids and then us. We had a bumpy, long van ride. It was good to have some time with the children alone. We played Connect Four and would have played checkers if it had not been too bumpy.
Ira was hysterically excited. She was jumping up and down calling Rita. She had seen us from a distance. She could not decide if she should get Rita or come to us. Finally she did go get Rita. I asked permission to go across the courtyard to meet them. Big hugs and a little shy. They showed us their rooms and introduced us to their friends. We sat in the sitting room awhile then outside to the playground. They introduced us to the puppies under their building. We gave out candy and rubber insects.
We asked permission to take them to lunch. We went to town and walked around. It seemed too short a visit. We hated taking them back. They began to tear up as we headed back. Their teacher said they asked if they could come to America again.
The time came to leave and they were crying. Then I was crying.
The van ride back....I asked Masha to translate and David to occupy Natasha and her son. I knew the oldest was sad and she finally told me why. We talked about it some. I had waited until that day to mention them becoming a part of our family. I only talked with the older 2. The boy was incredibly excited. The surprise was the older girls lack of excitement. In the van she explained her father had died 2 days ago. She was not allowed to go to the funeral. I expressed my sorrow for her loss. We had a fun time on the ride back. She felt better after telling me. It had not affected her siblings like it did her.
The day was done. The children went back to the orphanage.
We joined the Reach Orphans with Hope group for the first few days. They went to Poltava. We were able to see many of the children that had been hosted on summer programs and many I had met the year before visiting there. The kids were glad to see us and we were glad to see them. Lots of hugs! We were able to go with some of them to the park. We took bubbles and balloons. Great fun.
We took the orphanage 75 blankets. The director was pleased.
Natasha planned to take me to see the city on Saturday. Rachel said she just wanted to spend time with the children. I told her it was a privilege. We went and saw churches and an author's home. All this in 1 hour. Her husband drove us. (Later God multiplied the time we lost with the children.)
On a personal note on the night we arrived.... Our boy was asked by a friend if I was his mom and he said yes. I clearly understood this in Russian. I don't understand much. Occasionally I can understand sentences. We had not specifically told them of our plans. I was glad to know he already knew. He and his older sister would come up and hug me every few minutes throughout our time together. It is hard not to have them here with us. They are, in our hearts our children. We love them.
We had a great time with the group. It was an easy time, little responsibility, follow the leader. they were in Poltava 2 and a half days. They left for home on Sunday.
My dear friend Masha joined up Saturday morning. She helped many to talk with their future children. She was such a blessing. She rode the train all night to come, with drunks. (You will understand now why I took the day train later. I learned from her bad experience.)
Sunday we were given permission to take the 3 we planned on adopting to Sumi with us to visit Ira and Rita. Natasha and her son went with us also. Masha came to translate for me. It took about 3 hours. Natasha had the driver pick her up, they picked up the kids and then us. We had a bumpy, long van ride. It was good to have some time with the children alone. We played Connect Four and would have played checkers if it had not been too bumpy.
Ira was hysterically excited. She was jumping up and down calling Rita. She had seen us from a distance. She could not decide if she should get Rita or come to us. Finally she did go get Rita. I asked permission to go across the courtyard to meet them. Big hugs and a little shy. They showed us their rooms and introduced us to their friends. We sat in the sitting room awhile then outside to the playground. They introduced us to the puppies under their building. We gave out candy and rubber insects.
We asked permission to take them to lunch. We went to town and walked around. It seemed too short a visit. We hated taking them back. They began to tear up as we headed back. Their teacher said they asked if they could come to America again.
The time came to leave and they were crying. Then I was crying.
The van ride back....I asked Masha to translate and David to occupy Natasha and her son. I knew the oldest was sad and she finally told me why. We talked about it some. I had waited until that day to mention them becoming a part of our family. I only talked with the older 2. The boy was incredibly excited. The surprise was the older girls lack of excitement. In the van she explained her father had died 2 days ago. She was not allowed to go to the funeral. I expressed my sorrow for her loss. We had a fun time on the ride back. She felt better after telling me. It had not affected her siblings like it did her.
The day was done. The children went back to the orphanage.
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
A Busy Month
I thought things would slow down after the 8 orphans left. I have joked with some that if you are serving God your life never slows down. We are back in the full swing of school and Community Bible Study. We have signed up for no field trips this year. I think we missed all the deadlines with the orphans here. Rachel is taking art with William Hallmark. She is doing a beautiful job and learning a lot.
Rachel, oldest daughter, and I leave for the Ukraine October 29- Nov 10. We will be visiting the 8 orphans that visited with us in August. We will be going to a least 3 orphanages. We are praying about the schedule. There are many open doors. We are trying to discern where God wants us to visit there are other cities that are options. We are praying seeking God's perfect plan for this trip and His calling on our lives. We know we are to visit the 8 children. We will be meeting with missionaries while we are in Ukraine. We know we see only in part but God sees in full.
We are in the process of helping some to host for Christmas. We ask God to shut the doors if this was not His will. Three doors opened that day. We are praying about bringing the three we hope to adopt for Christmas. (Yes, money is an issue.)
On faith we are going on the mission trip. We had $20. donated. We spent much more than that on blankets. We are fully trusting God to provide for what He calls us to do. I am so excited to see the children and to encourage them. We know the ones in Zhytomer have a missionary and churches teaching them AWANA's. It is wonderful to hear that they have the Word of God in their lives.
The 3 we are trying to adopt, were going into foster care. They did not have a hope of adoption. They were told by the orphanage that an "American" family wanted to adopt them. They have figured out that it is us. They begged not to go into foster care. They were told they could stay at the orphanage. We have been able to talk with them some using an interpreter. They are very excited about our trip but disappointed we will be there only a few days.
We have heard it may be possible to adopt them in March instead of August. We have been trying to get our paperwork finished and over to Ukraine as soon as possible. That would be amazing and awesome! God's timing is perfect and we must trust in Him.
All the paperwork for Ukraine and school for my 4 leaves me little time to breathe. It is an incredibly busy time. We did not expect so much to do. Having a week of rest is out of the question. We took 1 day off after they left and then began school. In all that is going on there is such great JOY. What a privilege to help others and serve a God that loves us so much.
Have a blessed day!
Rachel, oldest daughter, and I leave for the Ukraine October 29- Nov 10. We will be visiting the 8 orphans that visited with us in August. We will be going to a least 3 orphanages. We are praying about the schedule. There are many open doors. We are trying to discern where God wants us to visit there are other cities that are options. We are praying seeking God's perfect plan for this trip and His calling on our lives. We know we are to visit the 8 children. We will be meeting with missionaries while we are in Ukraine. We know we see only in part but God sees in full.
We are in the process of helping some to host for Christmas. We ask God to shut the doors if this was not His will. Three doors opened that day. We are praying about bringing the three we hope to adopt for Christmas. (Yes, money is an issue.)
On faith we are going on the mission trip. We had $20. donated. We spent much more than that on blankets. We are fully trusting God to provide for what He calls us to do. I am so excited to see the children and to encourage them. We know the ones in Zhytomer have a missionary and churches teaching them AWANA's. It is wonderful to hear that they have the Word of God in their lives.
The 3 we are trying to adopt, were going into foster care. They did not have a hope of adoption. They were told by the orphanage that an "American" family wanted to adopt them. They have figured out that it is us. They begged not to go into foster care. They were told they could stay at the orphanage. We have been able to talk with them some using an interpreter. They are very excited about our trip but disappointed we will be there only a few days.
We have heard it may be possible to adopt them in March instead of August. We have been trying to get our paperwork finished and over to Ukraine as soon as possible. That would be amazing and awesome! God's timing is perfect and we must trust in Him.
All the paperwork for Ukraine and school for my 4 leaves me little time to breathe. It is an incredibly busy time. We did not expect so much to do. Having a week of rest is out of the question. We took 1 day off after they left and then began school. In all that is going on there is such great JOY. What a privilege to help others and serve a God that loves us so much.
Have a blessed day!
Friday, September 26, 2008
Going to Ukraine
We have been praying about this for weeks. Who, where, why and when, were all questions we were waiting on God's answer. A friend has offered to go with me to see what God is calling us to do. I am humbled by his offer. God is working out all the details. We don't know all the answers yet...but God knows the big picture. I think our minds are just to small to grasp the future.
My oldest daughter will be traveling with us. We will need at least one interpreter and a driver or plan to get around. We fully believe God knows already what the plans are for the trip. We are simply waiting on His revealing them to us.
We hope to carry things to the different orphanages. Some needed items are blankets (which we hope to buy in bulk), gloves, hats, jackets, embroidery thread, needles, candy, toothbrushes, toothpaste and lots of prayer. We are humbled by God's calling and excited by it too.
Please be praying for us as we prepare to go. This trip is going to be alot of traveling. We hope to take or send others later. We feel it is best for us to go ahead and see what each city is like before carrying a group.
We volunteered with a hosting group. We decided God was calling us to adopt from Ukraine. We started the adoption. We obeyed God and hosted 8 orphans in our home. Now God is giving us the next job assignment. So .... we are going to Ukraine.
Phil 4:13
My oldest daughter will be traveling with us. We will need at least one interpreter and a driver or plan to get around. We fully believe God knows already what the plans are for the trip. We are simply waiting on His revealing them to us.
We hope to carry things to the different orphanages. Some needed items are blankets (which we hope to buy in bulk), gloves, hats, jackets, embroidery thread, needles, candy, toothbrushes, toothpaste and lots of prayer. We are humbled by God's calling and excited by it too.
Please be praying for us as we prepare to go. This trip is going to be alot of traveling. We hope to take or send others later. We feel it is best for us to go ahead and see what each city is like before carrying a group.
We volunteered with a hosting group. We decided God was calling us to adopt from Ukraine. We started the adoption. We obeyed God and hosted 8 orphans in our home. Now God is giving us the next job assignment. So .... we are going to Ukraine.
Phil 4:13
Friday, September 12, 2008
Things not said, peace
I typed an email for a long time the other day. Then it disappeared. Too tired to retype it I decided there must have been something in it that did not need to be said. A shorter version was sent. God heard what I had to say in the email. He's the only one that really should have heard my heart on the matter. I liked it was not sent. Again trusting in His timing.
God's just a growing and stretching me and my family. I still laugh at us all sitting, at one of the kitchen tables and the children saying the house is empty. Empty? For years we have had people say, "you've got 4 kids". My reply, "yes we only have 4." To some 4 is alot. Somedays to me 4 is alot. But once you've met so many without loving parents 4 is not enough.
I wondered if I could love adopted children as well as my birthed children. Just being honest. But once you spent time with children hungry for love, God's love flows through you and there is enough love for hundreds of precious children. (Although I'll say there is not enough time in the day for hundreds).
Side story: Andrew said we could adopt 50 boys. Not to be outnumbered Heather said then we would have to adopt 100 girls. This way the girls would still out number the boys.
Hosting 8 we told them we were one big family. I watched over them as my own. Yes they were even punished, at times. You knew they weren't happy to do a chore even if you didn't know the language. We got the point. But before they arrived we discussed that if they were here for a month that they must obey some rules. Most of the time things went very good.
I'd say we had 3 hard days. I could not call them bad days. Most of the problems those days were due to planning problems. One home day was a rain day. Very few visitors came. So the next day we went to get rid of energy indoors and it worked. They ran jumped and played for 2 hours. They had a blast.
One night Amy cried herself to sleep. The next morning Andrew received a black eye. How Satan was attacking. I felt inadequate to do a quiet time. I was just going to remind the of the "Be kind" rule. I told the children of Amy crying herself to sleep and how sad it made me. I began to cry. And then the Holy Spirit reminded me of God's Holy Word. I shared verses from the Bible with them sitting on the ground by the lake. What turned out to be victory for Jesus. I don't know how many prayed to receive Christ for the first time that day...but I know what Satan meant for evil God used for good and what a peaceful day we had after that.
We all miss them terribly. We are praying for each of them.
We are praying about God's perfect provision and timing in trying to visit all the orphanages that we had in our home. We hope they will all allow us to visit the children. We are praying about hosting next year and God's provision and timing for that also.
The best thing I received out of the experience was a stronger confiedence in God. When it's God's will He will be there every step of the way to comfort, provide and lead. What an awsome peace comes from that knowledge. I knew that everyone would not help and support us. I did not know God would send "surprise" people to be the helpers. It became "ok God who's coming next and what are they going to do". I was so thrilled with my Heavenly Father's care for my family and the children. Again thanks to all that blessed the children and our family.
We cooked breakfast every morning. I realized after week 3 they had not tried our cereal or poptarts. Some never did try them. What a sweet time with the children in the mornings. At first I was sad nobody helped with breakfast. Then I rejoiced in the sweet time we had with the children in the morning. I felt selfish. It was so wonderful to have them here. Later I realized it was the "down time" we all needed with such a busy schedule.
Praying God's will and timing. Praying to be filled with His perfect love and peace. I LOVE God's perfect peace that comes from obeying and serving Him.
God's just a growing and stretching me and my family. I still laugh at us all sitting, at one of the kitchen tables and the children saying the house is empty. Empty? For years we have had people say, "you've got 4 kids". My reply, "yes we only have 4." To some 4 is alot. Somedays to me 4 is alot. But once you've met so many without loving parents 4 is not enough.
I wondered if I could love adopted children as well as my birthed children. Just being honest. But once you spent time with children hungry for love, God's love flows through you and there is enough love for hundreds of precious children. (Although I'll say there is not enough time in the day for hundreds).
Side story: Andrew said we could adopt 50 boys. Not to be outnumbered Heather said then we would have to adopt 100 girls. This way the girls would still out number the boys.
Hosting 8 we told them we were one big family. I watched over them as my own. Yes they were even punished, at times. You knew they weren't happy to do a chore even if you didn't know the language. We got the point. But before they arrived we discussed that if they were here for a month that they must obey some rules. Most of the time things went very good.
I'd say we had 3 hard days. I could not call them bad days. Most of the problems those days were due to planning problems. One home day was a rain day. Very few visitors came. So the next day we went to get rid of energy indoors and it worked. They ran jumped and played for 2 hours. They had a blast.
One night Amy cried herself to sleep. The next morning Andrew received a black eye. How Satan was attacking. I felt inadequate to do a quiet time. I was just going to remind the of the "Be kind" rule. I told the children of Amy crying herself to sleep and how sad it made me. I began to cry. And then the Holy Spirit reminded me of God's Holy Word. I shared verses from the Bible with them sitting on the ground by the lake. What turned out to be victory for Jesus. I don't know how many prayed to receive Christ for the first time that day...but I know what Satan meant for evil God used for good and what a peaceful day we had after that.
We all miss them terribly. We are praying for each of them.
We are praying about God's perfect provision and timing in trying to visit all the orphanages that we had in our home. We hope they will all allow us to visit the children. We are praying about hosting next year and God's provision and timing for that also.
The best thing I received out of the experience was a stronger confiedence in God. When it's God's will He will be there every step of the way to comfort, provide and lead. What an awsome peace comes from that knowledge. I knew that everyone would not help and support us. I did not know God would send "surprise" people to be the helpers. It became "ok God who's coming next and what are they going to do". I was so thrilled with my Heavenly Father's care for my family and the children. Again thanks to all that blessed the children and our family.
We cooked breakfast every morning. I realized after week 3 they had not tried our cereal or poptarts. Some never did try them. What a sweet time with the children in the mornings. At first I was sad nobody helped with breakfast. Then I rejoiced in the sweet time we had with the children in the morning. I felt selfish. It was so wonderful to have them here. Later I realized it was the "down time" we all needed with such a busy schedule.
Praying God's will and timing. Praying to be filled with His perfect love and peace. I LOVE God's perfect peace that comes from obeying and serving Him.
Monday, September 8, 2008
I've worked about an hour typing this. So let's try again. Computers do delete too much sometimes.
We are at the beach. God's perfect timing had Ricky working in Mobile on the weekend I wanted to spend alone with my children. Thanks be to God for this time.
A time of healing. Some physical healing if you look at the bruises on my children. But for me to take a breath. Regroup and start the school year. Yes, I did bring school work with us and they are getting the joy of doing their school.
God's got plans for all of us. I needed the alone time with God to see what the next step is for our family.
Rachel and I would like to go to Ukraine to visit the 8 orphans that were here. We believe it to be God's plan. But does that mean 1 or 2 trips to Ukraine for me? Rachel only 1 trip. But still there is the expense and the planning. Some have expressed and interest in going to visit the orphanages. Praying God's timing and perfect plan.
We are at the beach. God's perfect timing had Ricky working in Mobile on the weekend I wanted to spend alone with my children. Thanks be to God for this time.
A time of healing. Some physical healing if you look at the bruises on my children. But for me to take a breath. Regroup and start the school year. Yes, I did bring school work with us and they are getting the joy of doing their school.
God's got plans for all of us. I needed the alone time with God to see what the next step is for our family.
Rachel and I would like to go to Ukraine to visit the 8 orphans that were here. We believe it to be God's plan. But does that mean 1 or 2 trips to Ukraine for me? Rachel only 1 trip. But still there is the expense and the planning. Some have expressed and interest in going to visit the orphanages. Praying God's timing and perfect plan.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Be kind
My biggest struggle with these children is breaking a pattern of hitting each other. We all know it starts out small but someone gets hurt and mad. Habits are hard to break.
I don't pray for patience. God thinks I need more. He is working on that rough area in me.
What kindness am I showing. Am I patient enough with those that offend me? What example am I to these children.
I've told them not to waste their time being mad. What a fool I am to waste a second complaining. What a waste of my time.
Be ye kind one to another. Not just for kids.
I don't pray for patience. God thinks I need more. He is working on that rough area in me.
What kindness am I showing. Am I patient enough with those that offend me? What example am I to these children.
I've told them not to waste their time being mad. What a fool I am to waste a second complaining. What a waste of my time.
Be ye kind one to another. Not just for kids.
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Time flies
We are incredibly busy here. It is wonderful, tiring and a blessing. We are meeting new people. It is sooo interesting to see who God brings here. Also new people we meet and the way God has us all connected.
The children are all asleep. Yeah. Ok it is 12:30. We have had many full days. We are still working on Doctors and Dentist. God is good and His provision in perfect.
I'm soo excited I can't sleep. I must finish schedules and arrangements. I can't sleep in the morning because I want to see them. I think when they leave my family will sleep all day? Oh yeah, that school thing. Huh?
All is going better than I could expect. Nobody majorly injured (well yet). The 4 orphanages have blended into a family. I never know who God will provide to drive or bring a meal. I'm ok with all that.
God is growing and stretching each one of us. Is 40:31 is the verse of the day. God is my strength. No, I could not do this. No, I am not crazy. Just trying to obey God in what He calls me to do. Yes, I'm already trying to figure out how to visit 4 orphanages in Ukraine.
Come join us on mission in AL for the Ukraine. Watch God work.
The children are all asleep. Yeah. Ok it is 12:30. We have had many full days. We are still working on Doctors and Dentist. God is good and His provision in perfect.
I'm soo excited I can't sleep. I must finish schedules and arrangements. I can't sleep in the morning because I want to see them. I think when they leave my family will sleep all day? Oh yeah, that school thing. Huh?
All is going better than I could expect. Nobody majorly injured (well yet). The 4 orphanages have blended into a family. I never know who God will provide to drive or bring a meal. I'm ok with all that.
God is growing and stretching each one of us. Is 40:31 is the verse of the day. God is my strength. No, I could not do this. No, I am not crazy. Just trying to obey God in what He calls me to do. Yes, I'm already trying to figure out how to visit 4 orphanages in Ukraine.
Come join us on mission in AL for the Ukraine. Watch God work.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Heavenly hosting
Love, joy and peace with a house of 12 children. This is wonderful. Yes, sometimes very demanding. Not much sleep. It's 1:38 a.m.
God's blessings don't cease. The first day I prepared breakfast. A friend brought lunch and her parents dinner. Awesome! Sat and Sun we had meals here we prepared. Now on Mon the week is full of food. Friends are bringing fruit. 3-4 bunches of bananas are eaten by the children dailey. Plus a whole watermelon for dinner and apples and grapes for snack. Wow.
I'm glad they are getting the nutrition. They need more veggies. They ate a plate of cucumbers in less than 5 minutes.
Some ask "why by them new clothes?" Because for $4.00 (t-shirt and shorts) they are provided maybe with their first new outfit ever. They don't have to walk around looking poor. They are a part of our family for the month. I can't count the number of new clothes my children have gone through. I want them to be blessed too. I'm blessed by seeing them in what my children and I take for granted. We have so much we don't need.
I need to get them tennis shoes and long pants, winters coming.
All came with only a backpack, maybe a change of clothes.
I've had the best time looking at these beautiful children. All girls in pink, including mine. Boys matching each other. This way they are easier to keep up with. With my children matching they are thrilled.
Friends have been great to drive and help out. Such a blessing. Thanks for the meals, rides, hand me downs, clothes, fruit and swimming!!!
Our dailey bread, one day at a time. That's God's provision. I don't know who will help next or how. The surprises are thrilling blessings. We are being flexible, yet trying to stay with the schedule. Depending on God for all things. For God's perfect provision. Living on the mission field that is now our home. Join us if you dare to be blessed.
You will be surprised by God too.
God has worked out so many things. Fear Not. His ways are not ours... they are better.
Living, laughing and loving out loud.
God's blessings don't cease. The first day I prepared breakfast. A friend brought lunch and her parents dinner. Awesome! Sat and Sun we had meals here we prepared. Now on Mon the week is full of food. Friends are bringing fruit. 3-4 bunches of bananas are eaten by the children dailey. Plus a whole watermelon for dinner and apples and grapes for snack. Wow.
I'm glad they are getting the nutrition. They need more veggies. They ate a plate of cucumbers in less than 5 minutes.
Some ask "why by them new clothes?" Because for $4.00 (t-shirt and shorts) they are provided maybe with their first new outfit ever. They don't have to walk around looking poor. They are a part of our family for the month. I can't count the number of new clothes my children have gone through. I want them to be blessed too. I'm blessed by seeing them in what my children and I take for granted. We have so much we don't need.
I need to get them tennis shoes and long pants, winters coming.
All came with only a backpack, maybe a change of clothes.
I've had the best time looking at these beautiful children. All girls in pink, including mine. Boys matching each other. This way they are easier to keep up with. With my children matching they are thrilled.
Friends have been great to drive and help out. Such a blessing. Thanks for the meals, rides, hand me downs, clothes, fruit and swimming!!!
Our dailey bread, one day at a time. That's God's provision. I don't know who will help next or how. The surprises are thrilling blessings. We are being flexible, yet trying to stay with the schedule. Depending on God for all things. For God's perfect provision. Living on the mission field that is now our home. Join us if you dare to be blessed.
You will be surprised by God too.
God has worked out so many things. Fear Not. His ways are not ours... they are better.
Living, laughing and loving out loud.
Friday, July 18, 2008
The future
I have heard that our year of registration will begin in August. I had hoped that it had already begun. I know many of us would like the adoption process to go quicker. We must all trust in God's perfect timing. We must use our time wisly while waitng. We will be waiting and working.
I am praying about God's plans for us. We are praying knowledge. Should we host next year, how many to host and from which orphanage(s)? It is time consuming and costly. But we believe it is an oppurtunity of a lifetime for these children. I am also praying about visiting the Ukraine. I'm praying about when, how and who. If you would be interested in visiting the Ukraine please contact me.
We are thankful to those planning on helping and to those that have helped already. You are a blessing. Please visit the orphans in August. We do suggest you call first. We live in the country.
I am praying about God's plans for us. We are praying knowledge. Should we host next year, how many to host and from which orphanage(s)? It is time consuming and costly. But we believe it is an oppurtunity of a lifetime for these children. I am also praying about visiting the Ukraine. I'm praying about when, how and who. If you would be interested in visiting the Ukraine please contact me.
We are thankful to those planning on helping and to those that have helped already. You are a blessing. Please visit the orphans in August. We do suggest you call first. We live in the country.
Monday, July 7, 2008
I know many of you think we were crazy to host 6 orphans. Now we are expecting to host 8. Pray for us. God's perfect provision and timing. We must trust in God in all things, the big and the small. Faith in humans is even a harder task for me. I'm trusting God to walk us through this adventure.
My hands are white with stain. This is my break from working on our new cabinets. I've never been very good at self motivation. Lazy comes to mind. Now there are so many jobs to do it is hard to know where to start. I prefer new task to the old ones. Sanding, staining and soon to varnish are all therapy for me. Time to think things through. Yes, it is hard work too.
God prepares us in advance to do good works (Eph 2:10). Yet we must still walk in faith to do them. What good works were left undone due to laziness? What blessings were missed? My goal: to hear "Well done my good and faithful servant". Dying to my desires and living for God's.
"Wait upon the Lord" Is 40:31. In a day of hurry up and quick fixes we must wait on God for His answers. We pray God sends the children to us in His time. We pray the money collected is spent wisely for God's kingdom work. We pray these children see the love of God in us and through us. That they gain hope and joy from their visit here. We pray for helpers and friends to spend time with these children. That things don't have to go perfectly but smoothly. We pray the right chaperon comes to our home.
Back to staining.
My hands are white with stain. This is my break from working on our new cabinets. I've never been very good at self motivation. Lazy comes to mind. Now there are so many jobs to do it is hard to know where to start. I prefer new task to the old ones. Sanding, staining and soon to varnish are all therapy for me. Time to think things through. Yes, it is hard work too.
God prepares us in advance to do good works (Eph 2:10). Yet we must still walk in faith to do them. What good works were left undone due to laziness? What blessings were missed? My goal: to hear "Well done my good and faithful servant". Dying to my desires and living for God's.
"Wait upon the Lord" Is 40:31. In a day of hurry up and quick fixes we must wait on God for His answers. We pray God sends the children to us in His time. We pray the money collected is spent wisely for God's kingdom work. We pray these children see the love of God in us and through us. That they gain hope and joy from their visit here. We pray for helpers and friends to spend time with these children. That things don't have to go perfectly but smoothly. We pray the right chaperon comes to our home.
Back to staining.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
ROwHope group leaves
Yesterday Ricky woke me up at 5:00 a.m. He thought I wanted to go see the children off. I said I'd sleep a little longer. He asked our 4 children if the wanted up and they all said yes at 6:00 a.m. So off to the airport the children and I went to say our good-byes to the 13 orphans, 2 translators and 2 guardians.
I think each child was excited to see the reactions from the children when we arrived. I told my 4, they must be joyful, they must not cry in front of the children. The last 5 minutes was hardest.
We love each and every one of them. It is very hard to see them leave. We will pray for each of them by name. It was a wonderful time with them.
Our hosting: We are praying about hosting 8 instead of 6. By the way that was my original number. This would mean paying the hosting fee of $2,500 each. The family hosting them canceled due to change in arrival date. Others had asked to host. Maybe some will help with their hosting fee. God knows where these girls are meant to be this summer. We will pray and decide very soon.
With the children arriving in August it will be mostly homeschool families we are with during the daytime. We will try to schedule at least a family a day to be with the children. I know it could possibly interfere with school. It could also be used a school. Thank you for your prayers!
I think each child was excited to see the reactions from the children when we arrived. I told my 4, they must be joyful, they must not cry in front of the children. The last 5 minutes was hardest.
We love each and every one of them. It is very hard to see them leave. We will pray for each of them by name. It was a wonderful time with them.
Our hosting: We are praying about hosting 8 instead of 6. By the way that was my original number. This would mean paying the hosting fee of $2,500 each. The family hosting them canceled due to change in arrival date. Others had asked to host. Maybe some will help with their hosting fee. God knows where these girls are meant to be this summer. We will pray and decide very soon.
With the children arriving in August it will be mostly homeschool families we are with during the daytime. We will try to schedule at least a family a day to be with the children. I know it could possibly interfere with school. It could also be used a school. Thank you for your prayers!
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
What a joy it has been to be with the orphans these last few days. Ms. Anna has been riding up to me on the bike. I was so into her smile and overjoyed that she was purposing towards me that, oops she hit my 11 year old nephew. Yes, he was fine.
Lots of smiles and hugs the past few days. The other girls went to the dentist yesterday. So I went to check on Anna after nap time. She was hiding under the covers. I slowly pulled back the covers to see her smiling face and receive a big hug.
Artum and Andrew have had a great time with each other. My family has enjoyed playing with each and every orphan visiting. They are a great group of kids!
Today at home. Yuck! We will not be able to visit the orphans for 4 days. We will see them Friday night. There is much we need to do here. We have been with them from 9-9 for days now. So laundry must be done and other chores.
We serve and awesome God who's plans are perfect even if we do not understand them.
I feel blessed to be a part of Reach Orphans with Hope's program. It is wonderful to see it in action. It is great to see and meet the children that have been adopted and their families. What great hope for a better life for these children's future.
"Through the Word we are put together and shaped up for the tasks God has for us." 2 Timothy 3:17
I can't wait to see and meet who God puts with us when the orphans arrive at our home.
Lots of smiles and hugs the past few days. The other girls went to the dentist yesterday. So I went to check on Anna after nap time. She was hiding under the covers. I slowly pulled back the covers to see her smiling face and receive a big hug.
Artum and Andrew have had a great time with each other. My family has enjoyed playing with each and every orphan visiting. They are a great group of kids!
Today at home. Yuck! We will not be able to visit the orphans for 4 days. We will see them Friday night. There is much we need to do here. We have been with them from 9-9 for days now. So laundry must be done and other chores.
We serve and awesome God who's plans are perfect even if we do not understand them.
I feel blessed to be a part of Reach Orphans with Hope's program. It is wonderful to see it in action. It is great to see and meet the children that have been adopted and their families. What great hope for a better life for these children's future.
"Through the Word we are put together and shaped up for the tasks God has for us." 2 Timothy 3:17
I can't wait to see and meet who God puts with us when the orphans arrive at our home.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Visit ROw/Hope children
I am enjoying the time I am able to spend with the orphans from Ukraine. Andrew says he is glad he came home from the beach with me to be with them. He and Artem(s)are playing well together.
Reachorphanswithhope.org is the website to see visiting hours. If you have any questions about their schedule you can call me. I would love for ya'll to come meet and play with the children. The home is off Valleydale Rd. They will be out of town several days visiting with church groups.
I've had the privilege to tuck in the girls at night. What a joy and pleasure to get to know them better. Good night hugs and kisses are a bonus.
Two of the girls arrive tonight. Two more are still working on paperwork. Keep them in your prayers.
Reachorphanswithhope.org is the website to see visiting hours. If you have any questions about their schedule you can call me. I would love for ya'll to come meet and play with the children. The home is off Valleydale Rd. They will be out of town several days visiting with church groups.
I've had the privilege to tuck in the girls at night. What a joy and pleasure to get to know them better. Good night hugs and kisses are a bonus.
Two of the girls arrive tonight. Two more are still working on paperwork. Keep them in your prayers.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Reach Orphans w/ Hope group arrive
Yesterday we spent they day with the youngest we hope to adopt. What a priviledge to tuck her into bed last night. She is being hosted by the Reach Orphans with Hope group. Andrew also met Artem, they have been penpals.
A small group, in age and size. They were enjoying swimming and bikes. They also went to the dentist. I plan on spending as much time as possible with them they short time they are here. 2 had visa problems, 2 other paperwork problems and 1 ill. 9 of 14 arrived and hopefully some others will arrive soon.
Hosting paperwork is not simple and depends on the Ukr gov.
Still August 4th apt date for the children we are hosting.
A small group, in age and size. They were enjoying swimming and bikes. They also went to the dentist. I plan on spending as much time as possible with them they short time they are here. 2 had visa problems, 2 other paperwork problems and 1 ill. 9 of 14 arrived and hopefully some others will arrive soon.
Hosting paperwork is not simple and depends on the Ukr gov.
Still August 4th apt date for the children we are hosting.
Saturday, June 14, 2008
August arrival
I received a call from the hosting company. The appointment date is August 4th and they hope the arrival date will be August 5th. I'm very disappointed, and I know others are also. These are things that I have no control over.
School for the orphans starts back September 1. They will have to be back by that date. We are hoping to keep them until the end of August. Their 10 week trip will be shortened to 4 (or less).
We will make a new schedule as soon as I have confirmation they have paid for the plane tickets. Thank you for your patience and understanding.
The BBQ/ Car Wash at Palmerdale First Baptist today was a great success. Thanks to all who worked,donated, or/and bought food. God was good and the rain stopped in time to begin serving food and washing cars.
"God's plans endure forever; His purposes last eternally." Psalm 33:11
"God keeps His promise, and He will not allow you to be tested beyond your power to remain firm; at the time you are put to the test, He will give you the strength to endure it, and so provide you with a way out." 1 Corinthians 10:13
God has been so good to use many to help provide for the orphans coming. I trust He will send them in His perfect time. The more time that passes, the more people hear of their coming. The better their chances are for finding homes and bringing awareness to the problem.
Yes, but I morn the time we have lost with them.
School for the orphans starts back September 1. They will have to be back by that date. We are hoping to keep them until the end of August. Their 10 week trip will be shortened to 4 (or less).
We will make a new schedule as soon as I have confirmation they have paid for the plane tickets. Thank you for your patience and understanding.
The BBQ/ Car Wash at Palmerdale First Baptist today was a great success. Thanks to all who worked,donated, or/and bought food. God was good and the rain stopped in time to begin serving food and washing cars.
"God's plans endure forever; His purposes last eternally." Psalm 33:11
"God keeps His promise, and He will not allow you to be tested beyond your power to remain firm; at the time you are put to the test, He will give you the strength to endure it, and so provide you with a way out." 1 Corinthians 10:13
God has been so good to use many to help provide for the orphans coming. I trust He will send them in His perfect time. The more time that passes, the more people hear of their coming. The better their chances are for finding homes and bringing awareness to the problem.
Yes, but I morn the time we have lost with them.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Not today
Yes, it is somewhat a sad day. We do not have the orphans today. We had been told this would be their arrival date. But I have joy in knowing God is in charge and has it all under control.
I hope to hear their arrival date soon. I'm trusting in God.
Hebrews 13:8 I will never leave you or forsake you.
We had a nice evening with Ricky's family. They were encouraging. Being there also took our mind off of our to do list.
First Baptist Palmerdale is having a BBQ this weekend. Saturday from 12 - 5. Boston Butts $20.00 Plates $8.00 Meal for 4 to go $30.00
Car wash begins at 10.
All money goes to help orphans.
I hope to hear their arrival date soon. I'm trusting in God.
Hebrews 13:8 I will never leave you or forsake you.
We had a nice evening with Ricky's family. They were encouraging. Being there also took our mind off of our to do list.
First Baptist Palmerdale is having a BBQ this weekend. Saturday from 12 - 5. Boston Butts $20.00 Plates $8.00 Meal for 4 to go $30.00
Car wash begins at 10.
All money goes to help orphans.
Friday, June 6, 2008
Joy and peace
What a great Bible verse this morning.
"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13
I'm trusting in Him. I'm overflowing with hope. Hope for a future for these orphans. Hope for a great summer. Many unknows.
I don't see movies often. I did love the lines in Narnia about not knowing if he was ready and then the lion says "that's how I know you are ready." God uses us when we are ready to be molded. Not full of ourselves or overconfident. My confidence is in Christ that He will provide whatever is needed this summer. He will make each of us into what we need to be for these children. If, we are willing.
We still need gift cards for clothes and meals.
"joy and peace as you trust in Him"
"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13
I'm trusting in Him. I'm overflowing with hope. Hope for a future for these orphans. Hope for a great summer. Many unknows.
I don't see movies often. I did love the lines in Narnia about not knowing if he was ready and then the lion says "that's how I know you are ready." God uses us when we are ready to be molded. Not full of ourselves or overconfident. My confidence is in Christ that He will provide whatever is needed this summer. He will make each of us into what we need to be for these children. If, we are willing.
We still need gift cards for clothes and meals.
"joy and peace as you trust in Him"
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Waiting - with patience
The Ukraine has given a apointment date. It is later than we would like. We are praying they move up the date.
I've been painting - to hang up blinds, cleaning out closets, drawers and reorganizing. Much to do before their arrival. We still need to pick up beds that friends are allowing us to borrow and a ice maker. We also need to build shelves for the laundry room.
I will say I have moments of weeping. I trust God in His perfect plan. I still have a heart ache knowing that the 6 year, old we hope to adopt, will not be staying with us. The things I had ready for her seem to cause the most tears.
Honestly I had a dresser full of clothes for three 6 - 8 year old girls. Now I don't think any that age are coming. My 2 older girls have generously both offered to allow this unidentified child to sleep in their rooms. The oldest will be sharing with a 15 year old this summer. I'm hoping the 6th child will be a girl around 10. We will see.
Blessings.
....Patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Rom 12:12
I've been painting - to hang up blinds, cleaning out closets, drawers and reorganizing. Much to do before their arrival. We still need to pick up beds that friends are allowing us to borrow and a ice maker. We also need to build shelves for the laundry room.
I will say I have moments of weeping. I trust God in His perfect plan. I still have a heart ache knowing that the 6 year, old we hope to adopt, will not be staying with us. The things I had ready for her seem to cause the most tears.
Honestly I had a dresser full of clothes for three 6 - 8 year old girls. Now I don't think any that age are coming. My 2 older girls have generously both offered to allow this unidentified child to sleep in their rooms. The oldest will be sharing with a 15 year old this summer. I'm hoping the 6th child will be a girl around 10. We will see.
Blessings.
....Patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Rom 12:12
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Update Wanda and summer
The good news is we hear that 2 of the children we hope to adopt will be coming to our home this summer. The youngest will be in the state for 2 weeks, not at our home. This will make for a juggling trick: Hosting 5-6 and trying to visit her at another home. God will provide.
My Aunt Wanda had gone to be with the Lord. She battled cancer for 5 weeks. Such a short time. It is all a blur. Please pray for her daughter Teresa and her sisters.
I created a blogspot to keep up with our schedule for hosting this summer.
Bejoyfulinhope.blogspot.com
Come join us.
My Aunt Wanda had gone to be with the Lord. She battled cancer for 5 weeks. Such a short time. It is all a blur. Please pray for her daughter Teresa and her sisters.
I created a blogspot to keep up with our schedule for hosting this summer.
Bejoyfulinhope.blogspot.com
Come join us.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Visas and plants?
We are still praying for visas. They feel sure that they will receive them. They are not sure when. So far the dates are the same. I have not yet heard which children will be coming here.
God's opening doors for the children to visit Montgomery and Huntsville. Some here have volunteered to help. If you would like to be a part of this mission project please email me at Hollieeholmes@aol.com
Saturday, May 24 8 am to 12 pm
They are located at 2400 Sweeny Hollow Road
Thank you to all who are helping. We appreciate it!
We were able to see new pictures of the children we hope to adopt. What a blessing. The boy had a birthday and we sent him a shirt. Andrew wanted to send him a AL shirt. The girls protested. He was wearing the shirt in the pictures. We are a house divided, half AU and half AL. The older girl has a new haircut. She looks great. The youngest is adorable.
Yes, I'd say I'm excited. The blessings God keeps giving are wonderful.
Praying for visas, plant and yard sale, God's perfect timing, God's favor with paperwork.
"I have come that you may have life, and have it to the full." John 10:10
God's opening doors for the children to visit Montgomery and Huntsville. Some here have volunteered to help. If you would like to be a part of this mission project please email me at Hollieeholmes@aol.com
Saturday, May 24 8 am to 12 pm
They are located at 2400 Sweeny Hollow Road
Thank you to all who are helping. We appreciate it!
We were able to see new pictures of the children we hope to adopt. What a blessing. The boy had a birthday and we sent him a shirt. Andrew wanted to send him a AL shirt. The girls protested. He was wearing the shirt in the pictures. We are a house divided, half AU and half AL. The older girl has a new haircut. She looks great. The youngest is adorable.
Yes, I'd say I'm excited. The blessings God keeps giving are wonderful.
Praying for visas, plant and yard sale, God's perfect timing, God's favor with paperwork.
"I have come that you may have life, and have it to the full." John 10:10
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Pray for visas
Please pray today. They are trying to make sure all the orphan children have their visas to come to the U.S. There are about 35 in the group. They will be in several states.
I have invited the children we hope to adopt. This would be aweseome for my husband and children to meet them.
We have been asked to host from 3 orphanages. One is a 5 year old boy. He turns 6 in July. There hopefully will be 2 girls and a teacher from another orphanage. Their ages are aound 6-8. Then from Poltava 3 are supposed to be coming ages 6 girl, 13 boy, 15 girl. I have a friend in KY hosting and one in Chelsea, AL also hosting. Both hosting boys.
Now that I'm hearing who is coming the sleeping assignments have been made. We are all getting very excited. The schedule is being worked out. I should receive pictures of the children today or this week. Please pray this all works out according to God's will.
Not my will but God's. I would not have chosen to host from 3 orphanages. But I am glad to help others be able to host. I know God's plans are perfect. If God sees fit to send me children from 3 different places, I'm sure He has a reason. I will trust in Him for the answer.
Some of you ask "How do you think you can do this?" and "What about the language barrier?"
God's promise is "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." So we say with confidence. "The Lord is my helper; I wil not be afraid." Hebrews 13:5-6 I believe God will provide us with all we need to do the task he has assigned to us.
Again please pray that all goes smoothly with the paperwork in Ukraine. Pray that the children have all the paperwork needed to travel.
I have invited the children we hope to adopt. This would be aweseome for my husband and children to meet them.
We have been asked to host from 3 orphanages. One is a 5 year old boy. He turns 6 in July. There hopefully will be 2 girls and a teacher from another orphanage. Their ages are aound 6-8. Then from Poltava 3 are supposed to be coming ages 6 girl, 13 boy, 15 girl. I have a friend in KY hosting and one in Chelsea, AL also hosting. Both hosting boys.
Now that I'm hearing who is coming the sleeping assignments have been made. We are all getting very excited. The schedule is being worked out. I should receive pictures of the children today or this week. Please pray this all works out according to God's will.
Not my will but God's. I would not have chosen to host from 3 orphanages. But I am glad to help others be able to host. I know God's plans are perfect. If God sees fit to send me children from 3 different places, I'm sure He has a reason. I will trust in Him for the answer.
Some of you ask "How do you think you can do this?" and "What about the language barrier?"
God's promise is "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." So we say with confidence. "The Lord is my helper; I wil not be afraid." Hebrews 13:5-6 I believe God will provide us with all we need to do the task he has assigned to us.
Again please pray that all goes smoothly with the paperwork in Ukraine. Pray that the children have all the paperwork needed to travel.
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Work together
Good news. Progress has been made in the registration of the children we are trying to adopt. I am not sure how long the wait will be. At least a year because of Ukraine law. I am rejoycing in hearing it is moving forward.
Many of you know we are planning on hosting 6 orphans this summer at our home. The dates are June 10 - Aug 20. We are planning on hosting from the orphanage in Poltava that I visited in the fall. We are praying that all paperwork goes through on all sides. I am using a pretty new group called A Child's Light Orphan Aid based in CA. We have been working on this for quite a while now. We are waiting on paperwork from them to assure us of their validity. It will cost $2,500 per child to bring them here. I have made a list of needs and suggestions in helping that I will send out soon. Please pray God's perfect will and provision in this matter.
We know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. Rom 8:28
God constantly gives us new chapters in our life. This is a very exciting chapter in my life and of every member of my family. I used to think one day life would settle down and be easy. Now I realize if your serving God there is very little time to rest. There is much work to be done. I eagerly and prayerfully await whatever He calls us to. Pray about whatever God is calling you to do. Not just about orphans. God has a different purpose for all His children. He just wants us to be willing, empty clay pots He can fill!
I must go to schoolwork.
Many of you know we are planning on hosting 6 orphans this summer at our home. The dates are June 10 - Aug 20. We are planning on hosting from the orphanage in Poltava that I visited in the fall. We are praying that all paperwork goes through on all sides. I am using a pretty new group called A Child's Light Orphan Aid based in CA. We have been working on this for quite a while now. We are waiting on paperwork from them to assure us of their validity. It will cost $2,500 per child to bring them here. I have made a list of needs and suggestions in helping that I will send out soon. Please pray God's perfect will and provision in this matter.
We know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. Rom 8:28
God constantly gives us new chapters in our life. This is a very exciting chapter in my life and of every member of my family. I used to think one day life would settle down and be easy. Now I realize if your serving God there is very little time to rest. There is much work to be done. I eagerly and prayerfully await whatever He calls us to. Pray about whatever God is calling you to do. Not just about orphans. God has a different purpose for all His children. He just wants us to be willing, empty clay pots He can fill!
I must go to schoolwork.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Prayer
The last week I have been finding out as much as possible about hosting. There are a few paths that could be taken. I sat at a stop sign trying to choose which way to go. I had 4 choices. 2 were easily discarded. 2 were equally apealling. First choice: quick jump to the interstate, maybe longer in distance but higher speed. Second choice: slower speed, lots of red lights but a straighter shot. Do I take the easier road or risk the straight and harder path and end up stopped at lights? I chose the straighter path. This is one of those times that I'm in the car with my children and talking to God like I'm alone. I chose to have the possiblility of being stopped. Why? Because I don't want to take the easy road in life. I want to be willing to serve God in whatever He calls me to do. It was the conversation between God and I that there are easy roads in life but they are not always the best way to go. A few minutes later, I had the radio on, a traffic report comes on. Accidents on 2 of the roads I chose not to take. Honestly I was thanking God for the confirmation I had chosen the right path.
My Aunt Wanda is in the hospital. She has been told she has cancer and 4-6 weeks to live. We were uncertain of her salvation. She has prayed and ask Jesus in her heart. God's perfect timing and the Holy Spirits prompting are awsome. One more in the kingdom of God!!! Please pray for her and her only child, Teresa.
Prayer request from me:
The path to take in hosting. The number to host and how long.
Which churches will be involved and how they will help.
We will need bunk beds, mattresses, sheets, comforters, meals, a 12 or 15 passenger van, maybe another fridge or freezer, activities, clothing for the orphans (they may come only with the outfit they are wearing) and helpers.
God's perfect provision.
But I prayed, "Now strengthen my hands." Nehemiah 6:9
My Aunt Wanda is in the hospital. She has been told she has cancer and 4-6 weeks to live. We were uncertain of her salvation. She has prayed and ask Jesus in her heart. God's perfect timing and the Holy Spirits prompting are awsome. One more in the kingdom of God!!! Please pray for her and her only child, Teresa.
Prayer request from me:
The path to take in hosting. The number to host and how long.
Which churches will be involved and how they will help.
We will need bunk beds, mattresses, sheets, comforters, meals, a 12 or 15 passenger van, maybe another fridge or freezer, activities, clothing for the orphans (they may come only with the outfit they are wearing) and helpers.
God's perfect provision.
But I prayed, "Now strengthen my hands." Nehemiah 6:9
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
"My grace is sufficient..."
The ladies in leadership from Community Bible Study went to Gatlinburg for a retreat. We had a great time. Some of us thought that we would have a long quiet time. What silly thinking. I had hoped for clear words of wisdom from God. I'm not the only one. My friend heard what God said. But not what she wanted to hear. I heard a lesson I taught my children in first grade, simply obey. I was trying to get them to do their schoolwork. I was telling them to simply obey. God clearly told me to obey quickly. How convicting. I wanted them to learn what I apparently was not living. Well, I'm guilty again.
I've been asking God for Scripture. He's been giving it. Today's verses, just what I needed. "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths." Proverbs 3:5-6
I woke up early, spent time with my husband and then prayed. I told God I don't feel worthy to do what I feel Him calling me to do. Just so you know the adoption part is not the hard part for me. It is hosting other orphans in our home for a few weeks. Creating a nonprofit. Fully having to walk by faith. Tearing down even more of my walls and limits to obey God. Yielded to God takes on new meaning all the time. There is no comfort zone anymore.
My comfort zone was my husband, four children and our home. Well they are all going to be invaded and changed. Because God's plan is perfect, I trust in Him. We will all be better servants in the end.
"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness" 2 Corinthians 12:9. God's second verse of the day. I admit my weakness and He tells me He is powerful enough to do the job. So, God reminds me of that I've been trained. It amazes me to look back and know He has been preparing me for years. Things you may not know about me: Love camp work (counselor, leader, etc.), degree in Social Work, worked with the homeless and the needy, taught children how to read, volunteered at Sav A Life, Shelby (getting pledges, donations, speaking in churches, helped write the new by-laws). Like I said God's been preparing me for this for years. He gets the glory. I'm just a vessel that has to empty out myself - so God can use me. All these tasks accomplished add up to be what I need to know to do the new job. It gives me confidence in my God.
At 16 I felt God call me into missions. I was disappointed not to have a long period on the mission field. Just short trips. I know some have come to know Christ as their Lord and Savior. I always want more. There is one thing there will never be enough of, new Christians. Instead of jumping at the opportunity, I've said surely not me. I've given good reasons for it not to be me. And God said "My grace is sufficient for you".
God's timing is perfect. I don't know His details. I plan to be obedient and work toward the goal of hosting. I serve and awsome God. He says "Be doers of the word, and not hearers only." James 1:22 And then there is James 1:27 "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." Oh to serve God, my Father, who "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." What more could I ask for.
I've been asking God for Scripture. He's been giving it. Today's verses, just what I needed. "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths." Proverbs 3:5-6
I woke up early, spent time with my husband and then prayed. I told God I don't feel worthy to do what I feel Him calling me to do. Just so you know the adoption part is not the hard part for me. It is hosting other orphans in our home for a few weeks. Creating a nonprofit. Fully having to walk by faith. Tearing down even more of my walls and limits to obey God. Yielded to God takes on new meaning all the time. There is no comfort zone anymore.
My comfort zone was my husband, four children and our home. Well they are all going to be invaded and changed. Because God's plan is perfect, I trust in Him. We will all be better servants in the end.
"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness" 2 Corinthians 12:9. God's second verse of the day. I admit my weakness and He tells me He is powerful enough to do the job. So, God reminds me of that I've been trained. It amazes me to look back and know He has been preparing me for years. Things you may not know about me: Love camp work (counselor, leader, etc.), degree in Social Work, worked with the homeless and the needy, taught children how to read, volunteered at Sav A Life, Shelby (getting pledges, donations, speaking in churches, helped write the new by-laws). Like I said God's been preparing me for this for years. He gets the glory. I'm just a vessel that has to empty out myself - so God can use me. All these tasks accomplished add up to be what I need to know to do the new job. It gives me confidence in my God.
At 16 I felt God call me into missions. I was disappointed not to have a long period on the mission field. Just short trips. I know some have come to know Christ as their Lord and Savior. I always want more. There is one thing there will never be enough of, new Christians. Instead of jumping at the opportunity, I've said surely not me. I've given good reasons for it not to be me. And God said "My grace is sufficient for you".
God's timing is perfect. I don't know His details. I plan to be obedient and work toward the goal of hosting. I serve and awsome God. He says "Be doers of the word, and not hearers only." James 1:22 And then there is James 1:27 "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world." Oh to serve God, my Father, who "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." What more could I ask for.
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Rejoice in Hope
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; He rescues those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18 I don't understand God's big picture. I do trust Him. My understanding is the youngest of the 3 we hope to adopt will be coming this summer for 2 weeks. Not expected by me. I dared not hope for them coming. Bittersweet was going to be my title. It didn't give God enough thanks.
I grieve for the oldest. One of our first conversations was because of the sadness in her heart from not getting to come last year. So I pray for her strength, wisdom and hope. God loves them more than I do. I await his plan.
I Thess 16 Be joyful always; 17 pray continually
I am filled with joy over the thought of being able to see the youngest again. I am already praying about self control. I'd love to scoop her up and give her a hug and a kiss. Praying for God's wisdom and to be in His will.
On a fun note: Riding home Amy's in the back seat talking to Andrew and Heather. I hear Amy say, "I want to have one and adopt a family. I mean the kids not a mom and dad." I'm ready to cry. At 8 she's already thinking about adopting. Rejoicing in hope for others.
I grieve for the oldest. One of our first conversations was because of the sadness in her heart from not getting to come last year. So I pray for her strength, wisdom and hope. God loves them more than I do. I await his plan.
I Thess 16 Be joyful always; 17 pray continually
I am filled with joy over the thought of being able to see the youngest again. I am already praying about self control. I'd love to scoop her up and give her a hug and a kiss. Praying for God's wisdom and to be in His will.
On a fun note: Riding home Amy's in the back seat talking to Andrew and Heather. I hear Amy say, "I want to have one and adopt a family. I mean the kids not a mom and dad." I'm ready to cry. At 8 she's already thinking about adopting. Rejoicing in hope for others.
Thursday, April 3, 2008
Divine Delay
Thanks to Sandra for the title. Due to Ukrainian law we are experiencing a Divine Delay. The children we hope to adopt are not registered. Ukrainian law states something like: they must be registered in the Ukraine for 1 year before anyone from another country can adopt them. I regret to say it will at least be a year, unless something changes. I know there are others waiting on children to be registered and then waiting the year also.
"I pour out my complaints before God and tell him all my troubles. For I am overwhelmed." Ps 142:2-3 I want to pray, "God send them now." I can't. I know God's timing is perfect. He sees the entire picture. I don't. Today was one of those days I had to cry and tell Him it is hard to wait. I want to give them hope, love and a home. In God's time. I also want to be a moldable piece of clay in the hands of God. For Him to make and use me in His time, in His way.
Thanks for the prayers. They are needed and appreciated.
I'm excited to see what God's assignments are while I am waiting.
"I pour out my complaints before God and tell him all my troubles. For I am overwhelmed." Ps 142:2-3 I want to pray, "God send them now." I can't. I know God's timing is perfect. He sees the entire picture. I don't. Today was one of those days I had to cry and tell Him it is hard to wait. I want to give them hope, love and a home. In God's time. I also want to be a moldable piece of clay in the hands of God. For Him to make and use me in His time, in His way.
Thanks for the prayers. They are needed and appreciated.
I'm excited to see what God's assignments are while I am waiting.
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
THE BEGINNING
Why adopt?
Ephesians 2:10 We are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
We married 18 years ago. Ricky said he wanted a big family, 10 kids. I said I would have 4 and adopt 6. In our Montevallo home there was no room for more children.
God blessed us and we built a new home near family.
God brought Ukraine up to me over 10 times. He did it in different places and different ways. I didn't know why.
Summer 2007: Last summer a friend invited us to go to lake day with Ukraine orphans. I was in! Reach Orphans with Hope brings orphans to the U.S. for a cultural exchange. Last year they brought 3 groups of 12 children. Each group was to stay 2 weeks. We enjoyed being with them so much that we spent every chance we could with the orphans, for the next 5 weeks.
I want you to know I was ok with adoption. But my thinking was there are soo many here in the U.S. - Why adopt overseas? God changed my thinking.
There are 100,000 orphans in Ukraine. 1% chance of adoption. 10% chance they will kill themselves before they are 18. At age 16 most orphans are out of the orphanages. They have a very small chance of getting a job(27% chance). Most girls, (60%) end up doing what we parents would hate for our daughters to do, prostitution, to eat. 70% of the boys end up in crime.
So I got the message. God wants us to adopt from Ukraine. Wow!
Ok, I want my oldest to be the oldest and my youngest to be the youngest.
Another wall came down.
I met wonderful children this summer. How can one pick? So I asked others how they picked. "They just knew." "Fit in like always been there." No clear direction from God for us.
My son has been praying for a brother for years. So, we must adopt a boy.
Ukraine mission trip: I found out I had missed registration for the trip. If I turned in my paper work the next morning, with my deposit, I could go. 3 hours to find my passport that had been missing for a year. We had 2 houses and 2 house payments and little money. I called my mom. She offered deposit and assumed I was going. Praise God. I filled out the paperwork. Looked in a box and pulled out my passport. It was still valid. God provided - quickly.
I thought I would go to the poorest orphanage. They had a full team.
Kiev is a big city. We live in the country, big city kids would get bored here.
To Poltava: Thanks to all those who helped with my 4 children while I was gone. Thanks to those that donated money to get me there! You're all a blessing! You were an important part in God's plan.
A group of six went to the orphanage. We had a wonderful time. God filled me with such joy being there. I slept very little. Prayed alot. I didn't need an alarm clock, God woke me every morning. We met so many wonderful children. The staff at the orphanage was warm and kind. We were able to spend 2 days in the park. I think everyone would agree these were the best days.
I met the siblings of the children that came over the summer. I was surprised that so many had siblings. One had said to me "These are my brothers and sisters" referring to the other orphans. Some had said they had none.
The second day in the park was a Thursday. My heart lept watching two sisters. God had let me know who. Now it was my secret. The mission: to love all the orphans the same. Show no favortism. It was easy. God had filled me with love for all of them. (Now back home, my heart aches for them.)
I had discussed with my husband a one time adoption. That we would not go for just one but 2, 3, or 4. Now there were clearly 3. How could I leave so many behind? Why not the others?
The adoption agency says 3 max. Yes, it's a money thing. I've got the room for the 4th.
My husband has not met these girls. He is stepping in faith.
In Process: We are still waiting on our fingerprints to come back. We are working through Hague readings and questions. The social worker has been to our home. We wil do physicals soon, I think.
Ukraine does not allow preselection. We pray we are able to adopt whom we feel God led us to. They don't know we are trying.
Pray for: God's perfect timing in adoption. God's provision financially. Our family learning Ukrainian. What fundraising to do. God to be seen in us and through us as a family. A quick process. Favor with Ukrainian officials. Hosting orphans.
Ephesians 2:10 We are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
We married 18 years ago. Ricky said he wanted a big family, 10 kids. I said I would have 4 and adopt 6. In our Montevallo home there was no room for more children.
God blessed us and we built a new home near family.
God brought Ukraine up to me over 10 times. He did it in different places and different ways. I didn't know why.
Summer 2007: Last summer a friend invited us to go to lake day with Ukraine orphans. I was in! Reach Orphans with Hope brings orphans to the U.S. for a cultural exchange. Last year they brought 3 groups of 12 children. Each group was to stay 2 weeks. We enjoyed being with them so much that we spent every chance we could with the orphans, for the next 5 weeks.
I want you to know I was ok with adoption. But my thinking was there are soo many here in the U.S. - Why adopt overseas? God changed my thinking.
There are 100,000 orphans in Ukraine. 1% chance of adoption. 10% chance they will kill themselves before they are 18. At age 16 most orphans are out of the orphanages. They have a very small chance of getting a job(27% chance). Most girls, (60%) end up doing what we parents would hate for our daughters to do, prostitution, to eat. 70% of the boys end up in crime.
So I got the message. God wants us to adopt from Ukraine. Wow!
Ok, I want my oldest to be the oldest and my youngest to be the youngest.
Another wall came down.
I met wonderful children this summer. How can one pick? So I asked others how they picked. "They just knew." "Fit in like always been there." No clear direction from God for us.
My son has been praying for a brother for years. So, we must adopt a boy.
Ukraine mission trip: I found out I had missed registration for the trip. If I turned in my paper work the next morning, with my deposit, I could go. 3 hours to find my passport that had been missing for a year. We had 2 houses and 2 house payments and little money. I called my mom. She offered deposit and assumed I was going. Praise God. I filled out the paperwork. Looked in a box and pulled out my passport. It was still valid. God provided - quickly.
I thought I would go to the poorest orphanage. They had a full team.
Kiev is a big city. We live in the country, big city kids would get bored here.
To Poltava: Thanks to all those who helped with my 4 children while I was gone. Thanks to those that donated money to get me there! You're all a blessing! You were an important part in God's plan.
A group of six went to the orphanage. We had a wonderful time. God filled me with such joy being there. I slept very little. Prayed alot. I didn't need an alarm clock, God woke me every morning. We met so many wonderful children. The staff at the orphanage was warm and kind. We were able to spend 2 days in the park. I think everyone would agree these were the best days.
I met the siblings of the children that came over the summer. I was surprised that so many had siblings. One had said to me "These are my brothers and sisters" referring to the other orphans. Some had said they had none.
The second day in the park was a Thursday. My heart lept watching two sisters. God had let me know who. Now it was my secret. The mission: to love all the orphans the same. Show no favortism. It was easy. God had filled me with love for all of them. (Now back home, my heart aches for them.)
I had discussed with my husband a one time adoption. That we would not go for just one but 2, 3, or 4. Now there were clearly 3. How could I leave so many behind? Why not the others?
The adoption agency says 3 max. Yes, it's a money thing. I've got the room for the 4th.
My husband has not met these girls. He is stepping in faith.
In Process: We are still waiting on our fingerprints to come back. We are working through Hague readings and questions. The social worker has been to our home. We wil do physicals soon, I think.
Ukraine does not allow preselection. We pray we are able to adopt whom we feel God led us to. They don't know we are trying.
Pray for: God's perfect timing in adoption. God's provision financially. Our family learning Ukrainian. What fundraising to do. God to be seen in us and through us as a family. A quick process. Favor with Ukrainian officials. Hosting orphans.
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